Ok sweet ladies. Let me set something straight. I'm on this site looking for my true love, wife, mother to be (if she wants) and I don't play games. There are hundreds of you beautiful ladies sending me letters and I am honored. So if I don't write you right away please don't get angry. Ok, so now a little about me.
I'm a Christian and serve God with all my heart I'm very trustworthy, honest, sincere, trust is a key to a healthy marriage I'm a peaceful man but very protective of my future sweet wife and children. I will give my wife eye to eye contact when we talk, that to me is very important.
I want my woman to trust me, let me help her in the kitchen cooking, feel free to make love to me and know she is the only one in my life, I want her to be spontaneous, hold my hand in public, want to kiss me passionately and give me her heart to cherish and take care of.
We have to both be comfortable with our relationship, trust one another, and give each other room in the relationship to be ourselves.
A man wants respect from his woman, Marriages can't thrive happily without it. I want to overhear my name on her lips as she asks God to help me be the leader at home. There is more but requires me writing a letter to you It's not only something that makes a husband feel like a man, marriages can't thrive happily without it.
When we look into each other's eyes, it should be the window to our hearts, and the only way to open that window is with trust and love

WHAT I LOOK FOR IN A WOMAN
1. Realness.
If you act fake in front of your date in order to get them to like you, then you have no idea what havoc you will bring about. You pretended to be someone you are not for the sake of that one date but what if the guy actually started falling for the person you claimed to be. Can you blame him? He's unknowingly falling for your masquerade. What if there was a second date and another one after that and another and so on?
Are you just going to keep up with the act? The truth is that originality is highly appreciated in today's world. If you can be honest about who you are in a time where there's no concept of such a thing, then you are bound to win over a few hearts. Maybe the specific guy you have a crush on isn't into the real you, that shouldn't bog you down. It should actually make you look for someone else who would be.
2. Confidence.
This doesn't mean that you have to continuously flip your hair back and forth, that's called arrogance and that's a whole different thing than being confident. Be someone with whom a person can enjoy talking to. Be vocal about everything but not too vocal to the point where it just seems stupid. A guy always likes it when a girl is willing to actually communicate with him rather than avoiding them.
3. Emotional maturity.
This is another one of those things which the mainstream media has destroyed for us. We think that a guy wants a girl who'll be cute and she'll act childish. Most men find that to be unattractive.
Sure, emotional maturity isn't something that everyone possesses but it isn't something that people completely lack either. Instead of choosing the smarter option here, most women think that by acting half their age, they'll be more attractive. To be honest, that's just creepy.
4. Be vocal about their feelings.
The ancient male dilemma: just give a direct answer, either a yes or a no? Let's face it, women have been known to let men figure it out by themselves in many situations. The truth is that men are tired of it. They don't want a relationship where they have to guess your feelings all the time or one where you'd rather put the effort into leaving indirect hints around for them but never give them a straight answer. Some people are just a mystery; I get that, but most people just want a plain and simple answer without all the confusion.
5. Working on your appearance.
Some people might think that this contradicts with my earlier statement where all women think that men are attracted by their appearance. It's not ALL they want. There are a billion other things that men care more about than what you wear. Working on your appearance in this sense means to actually try and make yourself look presentable. Would you be fine with your guy looking like a slob all the time?
6. Caring about what they care for.
Again, realness is needed in a relationship but you can't act completely uninterested in what your partner is interested in. There's a huge difference between these two. You know that your partner likes some things and you may or may not be a fan of them yourself but that doesn't mean that you shouldn't at least participate in a conversation about it every now and then, just to make your partner feel like you care.
Everyone has their own specific set of preferences and they might differ from one another. The preferences given here are a general overview of what makes most men attracted to a woman.
OTHER THINGS ABOUT MY THOUGHTS ON A WOMEN:
1. SHOULD SHE BE CALM OR TALKATIVE? I like a woman that is both calm and talkative. I think that the situation should dictate the mood. Too much of both being calm or too talkative is not good. All I can say is just relax and go with the flow. If you truly love the person you will know how to react.

2. CRAZY LIFE OR STABILITY? Now this is a good one. First of all I like stability most of all. All good marriages need stability to succeed. But..... you have to be crazy once in a while and let it all hang out. Be spontaneous, exciting, loving, adventurous, romantic... you get the picture.
3. YOU TRAVEL TO HER OR SHE TRAVELS TO YOU? I feel that to honor the woman the man should first go to her. This way she will feel more comfortable and her family will also appreciate this. He should take interest in her culture and ways. But I will say this that she should be willing to be by her man's side no matter where he goes. If you have your roots in your country and will not leave then chances are that he will.
4. WRITING LETTERS FOR MANY MONTHS OR PLANNING A REAL MEETING? I think that writing a few letters at first is required. But if you can't figure out within a month or less that you want to meet her then it will never happen. Actually, if you really are interested in a person then curiosity will make you go see her even sooner. He will start wondering things like, what does she look like in person, what scent is her hair, her skin, the taste of her lips, the touch of her skin, things like this. Hmmm, this even excites me thinking about it!
5. GOING OUT WITH FRIENDS OR SITING HOME WITH HER? You have to spent alone time with your sweetheart and plenty of it to know her and appreciate her. But, saying this, you have to get out and breath occasionally. That means you and her going out with friends and enjoying the evening. One important thing to remember is that you will want her to be with her girlfriends sometimes also. Don't smother her, trust her and she will respect you for it.
6. COOKING AT HOME OR EATING OUT? LOL, this is a good one. First of all I like cooking in the kitchen with my sweetie. Put an apron on me and I'll be by your side cooking up great dishes. Just remember that in any relationship, you have to be a part of as many things as possible in their life (I will not sew though LOL). Now don't get me wrong, I love eating out too. You have to have a balance cook some, eat out some.

7. CAREER WOMAN OR HOUSEWIFE? I would think that this question probably depends on the age of the woman and her ambitions. A good husband will be flexible with this one. If we plan on having children then I'm sure you will want to be a housewife. But, I have a company and travel all over the world. Sooo... wouldn't you like to see the world with the love of your life? Something to think about.
8. DRESS OR JEANS? I love casual and jeans on a sexy woman is awesome. Tight and sexy, I think you should show off what you have but with class. I would be honored to walk next to you and your sexy self!! LOL. Now since I go to dinners and socials, a low cut tight short sexy dress with diamonds all over your body. That's what I'm talking about. Then afterwards wine by the fireplace...
9. BEER OR JUCE? Well I like to stay healthy but a good beer every once in a while doesn't hurt. I want to be in control of my senses, not the liquor. Now when the night winds down and we are by the fireplace, I'll have a glass of wine and long conversation with my love.
10. CITY OR TOWN? I'm a small town country boy from Texas with big city dreams, so I like country living by a big city. Figure that one out! LOL
11. CAT OR DOG? I have always had a boxer dog ever since I was a kid. My sister loved cats so must be a girl thing. If my sweetheart has one I will love it just the same.
12. READ BOOKS OR WATCH TV? The way I see it is that books open your mind and TV relaxes your mind, sometimes LOL. Since I'm an Engineer books are an important part of my life. But I like to read novels sometimes too. I'm very much in tune with world events since we need to be aware of what is going on in our world.
13. BODY OR BRAIN? Let's not fool ourselves, honey draws the bees. Beauty has always drawn man's attention to a woman. But I've met many a beautiful women that only showed it skin deep. The combo is what every man looks for, beauty both inside and out. You don't have to be a rocket scientist to get inside a man's mind, it just takes tender loving care and of course common likes and dislikes. I would rather laugh and joke with my love than discuss complex things. Don't get me wrong, intelligent conversation is a must also. The key is to relax with each other and let the chemistry flow.
14. RAIN OR SUN? I'm a sunny type of person. Life is too short so you have to look on the brighter side of life even though it may be dark and gloomy. On the other hand, a rainy day has a good side to it. It lets you look at your life from another prospective. So the key is to take advantage of life's ups and downs no matter the circumstances.
15. FAMILY OR CAREER? This is one of the same. Your family better be part of your career or your heading for trouble. Too many times success is put before family when really being family oriented leads to success. If your career means more to you than keeping your family then I want no part of that relationship.
16. SPORTS? I like all types of sports, mainly football, not soccer. So if my lover likes sports and wants to join me watching it that would be great. A big plus in my books.
17. MEAT OR FISH? I'm a big meat and potato man. I like only certain types of sea food, fish being on the bottom of the list.
18. AUDI OR BMW? I'm more of a Bentley or Rolls Royce type, but BMW is ok. I definitely wasn't raised in a rich family and I do understand the meaning of poor and respect people that don't have much. In fact I give a lot, that's what the bible requires if you have an abundance.
19. WAITING FOR A MIRACLE OR ACTING BY YOURSELF? Relationships are created by your own initiative and not by a miracle. It either works or doesn't. So you have to step out of your comfort zone and try. If you never try then you will never know if you can meet the right guy.