To start I am giving fair warning that I an currently married, but going through a divorce. I am living in the same house for financial reasons, but am also searching apartments to move out soon I hope. I would love to meet a down to earth, open minded woman that is not afraid to try new things or travel to new places. I would like her to be a calm individual that doesn’t create stories in her head and act on those stories without proof. I hope that she would just ask me instead and actually listen to what I have to say. I believe in telling the truth even if the truth hurts. I take pride in not judging people for their past or by stereotypes, as I hope they would do the same with me. You can't truly love A person by outside appearance alone. A relationship and a family should be based on truth and honesty with no lies. I wish that my love would prove true so that you can see past the skeletons in my closet. I love everything about nature, animals, and children. I believe in the golden rule of, "treating people how you want to be treated". I enjoy being active in activities of all types, but primarily helping others discover new experiences or developing themselves to be better in some way. I try to be healthy and at least stay semi fit. Passion and love are a very important part of a relationship for me. If you ever get a chance please read, "The Five Love Languages" if you have not already. It is a small book, but I feel it would help anyone seeking to better understand their partner or themselves. By the way my top love language is physical touch... Go figure, lol. What is yours I wonder? I value other's opinions as I feel they help us understand things better about ourselves and the world. People say I am a very patient and understanding person. The girls or women I have been with say that I am a good and passionate kisser. 😉 I hope you would agree with those two points when we meet. I believe that chores, both in and out of the house should be shared. Just like everything in a couples life. It brings me pleasure to please my woman in every way. I enjoy cooking, especially when my woman helps me or I help her in the kitchen. I also enjoy baking and even owned my own cake making business for a period of time in Germany. Love traveling and experiencing new things, as I hope you would like to do the same. Please, take notice that I have 3 boys (currently ages 14,12,& 12). All from my ex and yes the last two are twins. Although they look and act like polar opposites. They are my life and if your with me I hope you would accept them as if they were your own. I will do the same for your children if you already have any. As I would give my life to protect any of my loved ones, which includes my wife, my children, and/or your children. Oh I also love phycology, philosophy, reading, architecture, and things of the mid-evil era (fantasy or reality).

It is hard to describe ones ideal match as I am sure you would agree. I find everyone to be special in their own unique way. Even the difficult or very angry individuals. It just depends on if we are patient enough to see it and accept them for who they are without judgement. I try do that with everyone I meet. Which is probably why I get along with almost everyone. That and because I like to smile and laugh a lot. So the description of my ideal match is just what I have noticed in myself. When describing what type of women I gravitate towards. They are not blocks that I check off. A great personality and inner beauty can overcome any physical or mental flaw. Sometimes those flaws or differences are what make those people extra special. So that being said; here I go... I am attracted to smart educated women that recognize the beauty of life and nature around them. That value family togetherness over material things. A woman that likes to create a loving environment for her man and children without worrying about what the neighbors do or think. I would like her to be easy going. Careful and thoughtful in her actions without being paranoid or too timid. I prefer a giver, but she still needs to knows how to except kindness from others. As I am more of a giver too and often sacrifice what I want to fill the wishes or desires of my loved ones. Intimacy is very important to me. I would hope she wouldn't mind that I have a high sex drive (about 5 times a week). Maybe even 2 times a day depending on the day. Don't worry though I can stay loyal to one woman without sex for as long as I need too as long as she remains loyal to me. I have proven this to myself in past relationships. In fact, the lack of intimacy was one of the reasons why my last relationship failed. I will explain more about that later if we get to know each other better. I tend to sway more towards blondes or dirty blonds to be honest. Blue or green eyes can be hypnotizing, but I could get lost in any color eyes depending on the depths of their soul. I prefer if the woman is no shorter than 5'2" however I did date a woman that was 4'10" before and it wasn't too bad. A woman that is taller than me or 5'8" is tough for me to look past, but not impossible. I say this because I once tried dating a taller woman and it was very strange for me to kiss her while looking up. It just felt awkward 🤷🏼‍♂️. To me the female body is a gorgeous work of art. Often, I put my woman on a pedi-stool. I Try to be a gentleman at all times, as a way of showing her how valuable she is to me. However, she would need to be able to turn into a wild and passionate tigress at times, but know when to keep it at bay. While other times enabling me to play the dominate roll or simply indulge in slow passionate and gentle love making. Would like her to enjoy outdoor activities, animals, board/card games, traveling, trying new experiences, and independent enough to work or take care of things when I am not there. In fact, an independent woman with her own thoughts and a mind to express her thoughts is a huge turn on for me. I don't watch or play sports often but I do enjoy working out in the gym or participating in an exercise class. Creating our own work out in the bedroom would also be a great way to stay fit🤪. Wouldn't you agree? Again, these are all just preferences but I enjoy pleasant conversations with almost everyone and try to never judge. Age is not a big issue but I prefer my future wife to be between 26-43 just because of their prior life experiences. Honestly, I am not a picky person although it may sound like it. I just know what I prefer and try to always be open/honest with myself and others. Just be honest to me and be yourself really. If it happens; it happens. If not; God has a plan for us all. Peace and good luck in your search!