Let me start by saying, its very difficult to craft an advertisement explaining who you are that will capture any woman's heart and enrapture her soul unless you're really specific regarding who you are and what type of a person you're looking for. So I will try to get straight to the point and try my best.

I am employed full time working as IT Network and Communications Administrator. I was born and brought up in South Africa.I am a little shy until you get to know me,but am extremely open and gregarious once I feel a trust bond has been built. For fun- when I don't have a life socializing with friends and family, you can find me either fixing computers or watching movies

Benefits of being in a relationship with me:You will find someone who knows that money never buys love,but that excellent communication, honesty, trust and consistency make love grow. A man who will always put your feelings first. A gentleman who listens to you whenever you have anything to say, because you're important.I would love to spend all my time with a woman who makes me feel that her love is mine.

First you must be willing to relocate to South Africa

You are sweet,honest and have dynamic interpersonal communication skills.You don't decide to walk out on a relationship when problems occur in your life or those of your significant other.Instead, if you truly love your partner, you learn to strike a balance between protecting yourself and being there to give your partner emotional support,love and encouragement.You want to have fun with your boyfriend and believe that money or lack thereof should not be the deciding factor.
In other words I am looking for a woman, a friend who measures up to my liberal beliefs and zest for life, someone who matches and contrasts with who I am; and actually a person I never want to stop learning about. I would prefer to be chummy with someone who is willing to live her life walking between passion and poise: and above all, willing to take an optimistic risk. I would be pleased to discover in her a gentle, soft and vehemently forthcoming personality, and not to mention a rich sensuality requiring no exertion of will to animate it. Someone who does not fear what two exciting minds and delightful bodies would discover together.
Again thank you for your time and happy days!!