I have been registered on online dating sites for some time now and I received thousands of letters, but I am still single. Yes, I am getting a lot of attention, but when I try to communicate seriously with someone it ends up fruitlessly.
Therefore removed some of my older photos, which could be misleading about my current appearance and I uploaded new photos - October 16, 2020. I am not very happy with my visibly tired face, but maybe those photos “filter out” overwhelming attention from some ladies. Although, I can assure you that my next photos will be much better – I am working on my physical appearance amongst my other actions aiming to reverse aging process.
I am 76, but please do not see me as an old man, sitting on bags of money, having a lot of time for traveling and being just observer of the world events passing by. My life is filled with various endeavours above my full-time job, running my business, daily workouts; studying new discoveries in health, philosophy – in short - I am exploring “wellness” in all dimensions.
I married pretty woman (19 years younger) and we have 2 smart and good looking kids (grown up now), but this was not enough to keep our marriage intact. We got divorce but without any dramas. She was good mother and took good care of our children, but though she was much younger than me, she become “old woman” in few years’ time of our marriage. We fall apart because we did not have common goals, we did not strive to grow ourselves into vibrant and creative unit. Daily routines killed life excitement, love and even sex.
What I learned from my failed marriage experience? - It is not enough to be good wife or husband, having financial security, or even having satisfying sex – you have to be one entity.

After the divorce, it took me a while to stop feeling sorry for myself and instead of being miserable, I channel my all energy and some anger too, into constructive action. I restored my physical and emotional strengths to the level before I got married. I went into business adventure, which is intellectually demanding, emotionally exciting – I am fully alive again and I decided that I am ready to start a new family. I am proud of my first one, but with my experience I feel that I can do better job with the second one. I am much wiser in many respects in building a happy family nest. Thus, I am looking for “my missing half”, for my future wife as my partner in all aspects of life.

Although I have been on this site for a while now, I have encountered many problems where communication is concerned. I am attracted as much to the “brain”, if not more, as to other parts of woman’s body. If you posted sexy photos, which is fine, but in your first letter to me do not forget that you have brain too, and I am very interested how you are using this vital part of your body in everyday life. Instead of trying to seduce me at the start of communication, please make a case that you could be my life partner, inspiring wife, and not only sex and travel partner. And please don’t ask me questions like “What is your preferred sex position?” (I could answer “It depends of your flexibility”), or what colour of roses you like. All such questions are fine, but further down the road, after constructive and serious communication about what it means to become a vital part of someone’s life. Being on this dating site is no a game for me, or just to have virtual flirt – I don’t have time for that.

I am looking for someone who would inspire and motivate me in my ambitious goals, dreams extending beyond everyday living needs. In your letter, please tell me about your life aspirations, your successes, and failures.

I do apologise those ladies who have written to me nice letters, but I have not responded. It is physically impossible to respond to all those letters. However, if I respond, usually with my long letter and I am asking some questions, but I get back “template” letter, do not expect me to write to you again.

Note to ladies: Very often I am getting a first letter from a lady expressing her apprehension in writing first to a man. Ladies, we are living in 21st century! What happened to gender equity? If there is a man, who doesn’t appreciate letter from you because you have written first, that man is not worth you attention at all. My advice is - don’t hesitate to write first if you are interested in a man. He will be glad to read your letter even if he does not respond.